Two Thirds

Remember when I did my 'halfway' post?
Well, I thought I would do another update now that I'm 2/3 of the way through my first pregnancy.
I know, i totally rock for being this far along!

  • i'm still hungry all the live long day. and night for that matter. it literally is a 'bottomless pit' feeling - really think about that - you put food in but there is no bottom for it to hit or continue to fill up your tummy...it just disappears as if you never ate it in the first place, leaving you just as hungry as you were before. (actually, there have been a two occasions when I have eaten so much that my stomach truly felt like it was going to split right open from being too full - and that is just as unpleasant of a feeling. you can't win)
  • the rumors are true - people really do just walk right up and touch your belly. it happens. But, it happened to me more when we were in the DR - I was like royalty there :)  hope you like being fondled!
  • don't tell anyone names you like. Why? 1) they might steal them 2) they don't shy away from stating their opinion. No one will tell you they hate the name "princess consuela" if your baby is officially named "princess consuela" after they are born. but before it's official, people just spitfire all their opinions
  • I feel the cutest in dresses. especially spandex ones that shape my belly
  • my belly gets ROCK hard whenever the little babe stretches out. seriously it just feels like baby is pushing up against my tummy as hard as he/she possibly can. sometimes, it hurts
  • i love my belly button! hahaha it is so darn funny - whenever I laugh and my stomach gets super tight, my belly button sticks out like an inch farther, which only makes me laugh more + more
  • Bending over really is a process. I'm not to the point where I need to get a wide stance before I bend, I can manage a sideways approach - but man oh man if I forget that I'm pregnant and bend over quickly - OUCH! It's like running full-board into the great wall of china
  • sneezing. I talked a little bit about this in my latest bumpdate - but sneezing hurts! feels like a punch to the pelvis
  • babies have the CUTEST clothes! Boy or girl, I cannot wait to start shopping for little outfits. I get butterflies every time I pass the clothing racks - i just want to buy everything
  • i've developed a crazy muscle right in between the dimples on my back - it's kinda weird! It's shaped like an upside-down triangle and actually bulges out kinda far...not sure if that's normal or not. but it's hardcore
  • dancing whilst pregnant is a hoot. Seriously, there is no better accessory than a preggo belly on the dance floor
  • heartburn - i'd say that's been the defining symptom of my second trimester. i get it occasionally during the day, nothing a couple of tums can't fix... it's at night when the real war begins. i wake up because my throat is on FIRE, and at that point no number of tums or glasses of water helps.
  • the glucose drink really isn't that bad! I thought it tasted like orange Fanta, just with a lot more fiz :) I was kinda freaked beforehand because I had heard so many horror stories about it, but one of the stories was 'it tastes like wayyyyy to sugary koolaid', which i'm be okay with :) 
  • people get kind of mad (?) at me since I'm pretty small for how far along i am (don't be fooled by the pictures, in real life i look smaller)... I understand (sometimes) where they are coming from, if they put on a lot of weight during their pregnancy, etc., but it goes both ways. It makes me sad that I'm not showing more - I don't feel as 'pregnant' as the women just as far along as me, and that's not fair
  • be grateful if you have an RH+ bloodtype. I'm negative, and had to get the worst shot of my entire life a few weeks ago. It felt like I had been stung by a 100lb bee, and it burned for hours afterwards. i needed my mama there to hold my hand
  • birthing classes are pretty hilarious. i really should take it more seriously, and i do! but sometimes, it's just hard to hold back...
  • occasionally I will wake up with a really bad leg cramp. similar to that feeling when you are child and wake up from a horrible nightmare being chased by a dragon down a dead-end alley. it's pretty scary
  • it's true - my internal temperature is much hotter than usual. It's gonna be a fun summer!
  • I've actually felt pretty neutral/easy the past few weeks/months. Maybe even the whole second trimester. Sometimes I forget that I'm pregnant! but then this little babe gives me a good kick and I remember again. I know it's a blessing that I haven't been miserable and I can still do everything I did before I was pregnant
  • stretchmarks - those are hard. The morning I woke up and saw those very first purple marks, was hard. I can't fully describe the sinking feeling I felt both in my stomach and in my heart, or the thoughts I let my mind speak to me. I really was just in shock, disbelief, and denial. I was angry and sad. It gets better with time - but i'm not gonna lie, it's hard
  • speaking of stretchmarks - my boobs are starting to kill again. and they are leaking yellowish creamy stuff. colostrum, if you want the technically correct term
  • the second trimester is the best!!! it seriously felt like a breeze and FLEW by - crossing my fingers the third trimester isn't too hard!

lastly - this whole thing truly is a miracle. 

Bumpdate: 28 weeks


How Far Along? 28 weeks, 4 days
Weight Gain? 18 pounders
Food Cravings: None really. Just food in general :)
Symptoms: Still awful back pain :( also, heartburn sooooo bad
Maternity Clothes? Took advantage of those memorial day sales to buy my first maternity jeans!!! Guys, I don't think I'll ever go back to regular jeans - maternity ones are so comfy!
Stretch Marks? Yes :( Not on my belly or butt, but on my breast-oh-las! I just woke up one morning and they were there to say hello. 
Sleep? Hasn't been as bad - probably because I am getting super tired again like I was in the first tri. I think being so tired helps put me into a deeper sleep
Movement? My tummy never stops shaking! This babe has got the rhythm :) I wouldn't be surprised if he/she came out tap dancing
Best moment? Feeling the babe move inside of me is the best.  Also, our baby moon was the perfect getaway. Also, sometimes I can feel the baby's heartbeat by pressing my hand on my belly, and that is a special moment indeed.
Weird pregnancy moment? I'm leaking milk? There's just too much in there... Hence the stretch marks :( Also, I haven't mentioned this before but sneezing at anytime throughout pregnancy is the weirdest feeling. Sometimes it hurts - it feels like you are getting punched in the uterus. Lately, it causes a shooting pain up my spine. So that's fun!
Belly Button: Audi. I secretly love that my belly button is poking out haha
Gender? Still holding strong and keeping it a surprise!
Looking forward to: Our first birthing class - it starts tonight and I've been looking forward to it all week

Showered

A week before graduation my friends showered me with gifts + love.
It seemed a bit early to throw a shower, but I am so so happy we did because so many people moved right after graduation :( I miss you all!
The theme for the shower was so darn cute, I loved it!
My big sissy made all of the delicious desserts and I was over decor/crafts. I wish we took more pictures because everything seriously looked so darn cute. And the lemon bars? Let's just say my mouth is watering...

For one of the games we had a list of old wives' tales for people to ask me. Then we tried to predict the gender based on my answers/preggo symptoms.
According to the wives tales, baby girl won 11-9. 
But most of the people at the shower thought I am having a boy, 12-3!



If you need a super fun craft for your shower, this one is a real winner! I actually got the idea when we threw my older sister a shower last year, and decided that I wanted to do the same thing at my shower. 


I made the cardboard stencils all by myself, so you can literally have anything you want on the onesies. Then, you just give people felt + scissors + glue + onesie and Voila! You are set in the onesie department (ha ha ha ya right)!
I think they turned out SO cute! We made over 20 onesies and I can't wait for Baby to dawn these adorable threads
A perk of not finding out the gender is that people get you very practical and useful things. I hardly got any outfits, but was given soooo many essentials that I know I will be using every single day soon! Plus, I know I will get tons of cute little items for this babes wardrobe after he/she arrives!
Random roomies freshman year was the best thing ever.
Struggling to get one good sister pic
All in all, we had a grand ole time
I'm kinda sorta maybe starting to freak out - it's getting soooo close!

(Err'yone: Sorry for the pic quality - the shower was indoors and at night)
(Mom: Sorry I don't have more/better pics - I'm sad about it, too!)

Babymooners

if my bajillion photos on instagram weren't enough for you, here is the official reel from our trip to the Dominican Republic: aka Babymoon
note: J and I planned to go on a trip after graduation since we got married. It just worked out nicely that we got pregnant, so we could call it our 'babymoon'

for starters, we stayed at an amazing hotel. All-inclusive. Upgraded to the honeymoon sweet. 
Need I say more?
Yes. Indeed I do need to say more. Not only were the delicious slushy drinks + food free, but equipment such as snorkel gear, kayaks, windsurf boards, sailboats, bikes, etc. etc. etc. were also free. We indulged in these every. single. day.
J was so cute - he loved to go out and snorkel. Sometimes I would look out just in time to see his legs kick up as he dove down to get a closer look at the fishy's. One day he even brought me back a "pokey ball" that he found and we watched it try to move around on the sand!
the only thing we did pay for was a taxi trip to Loma Isabel de Torres, a replica of the Christ the Redeemer statue in Brazil. This statue is located on the tippy top of a mountain, and we had to ride in a cable car to get to it (the only cable car in the Carribean!) 
Once we reached the top, there were all kinds of merchants who claimed to know the best place to photograph us with the statute. They posed us awesomely - see for yourself:
We loved spending the morning here. The statute was surrounded by beautiful botanical gardens, with gorgeous stone paths leading every which way
we had too much exploring in the gardens - it was truly so beautiful
While going out into the city was fun, most of our days were just spent relaxing on the beach
there was much picture-taking
wave-frolicking
and sun-bathing with the wonderful sea breeze to keep us cool
on our last morning, we woke up to watch the sunrise. It was GORGEOUS. Such a beautiful sight!
Babymoon = Success!
I'm so happy that J and I took a little vacay for ourselves. It was much needed, and we couldn't help but feel giddy the entire week we were in the DR. It was the perfect little getaway!